By Allen White
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with
one another in love. Ephesians 4:2
Ruth Bell Graham, wife of Billy Graham, chose an interesting
epitaph for her tombstone. “End of construction. Thank you for your patience.” She
saw this message on a highway sign and thought that it just summed things up.
We are all works in progress. When we are trying something
new, when we are trying to figure something out, or when we’re trying to get
our act together, we would appreciate if people would “bear with us.” Their
patience and gentleness when we are under pressure is both welcomed and
necessary.
Paul turns this thinking around a little bit. Following the
Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12), the apostle instructs us to treat others like we
would want to be treated. Have you ever made a mistake? Then, be humble toward
others. Have you ever been treated abruptly? Then, be gentle in your response. Have
you ever been treated rudely? Then, be patient with others. Have you ever felt
the pressure? Then, bear with one another in love.
Jim Collins, an author and Stanford University professor,
has written a number of books on successful organizations including Built to
Last, Good to Great, and his latest, When the Mighty Fall. I heard Collins
speak recently at Willow Creek’s Leadership Summit. It is interesting that he
attributes the failure of many leaders to a lack of humility.
Arrogance says, “I’ve made it. I did it myself. I am so
great that I don’t need to listen to anyone else, depend on anyone else, or
give anyone else credit.” The arrogant leader’s attitude is “my way or the
highway.” They are locked in a bubble of self. People stopped telling them the
truth long ago, because these leaders already know everything, they think.
Collins argument is that no one is invincible and no one has
ever succeeded by themselves. The antidote to arrogance and the source of
humility, according to this business author, is to count your blessings. When
we take out a sheet of paper or open a blank document and begin to recount all
of the blessings that we’ve received and all of the people who’ve helped us get
there, we suddenly realize that we’re not as big of a deal as we think we are.
Humility kicks in. And, here’s the beauty of this: humble leaders are
successful. Arrogant leaders tend to implode, even when everything is going up
and to the right.
When God chose to gather a people to call His own and use
them to perform His will, He didn’t imagine developing a better class of people
who are above sin. God knew exactly what He had to work with: us. The hope for
success is that God works in us, not to make us perfect, but to make us better.
God knows that when we think we’re more important than
others that things will fall apart. When we mistreat others, the task might get
accomplished, but there are bleeding wounds in our wake. When we work with
others, we tend to be forgetful about how patient God is with us, and we tend
to deny others the same courtesy.
The only way that this God-envisioned enterprise called the
Church will work is if we bear with one another in love. Otherwise, how is the
Church different from any other enterprise in the world?
If Ruth Bell Graham, the wife of possibly the greatest
evangelist in history and mother of five, was a work in progress until she was
completed on the other side, what stage are we at?
I would challenge you today to take five minutes and jot
down the first 50 blessings that come to mind. Remember the parents, the
teachers, the coaches, the friends, the employers, the opportunities, the
education, the lenders and everyone else who gave you a leg up in life. If it
wasn’t for them, you would have nothing to be proud of.
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